don't blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not
doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or
less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have
problems with our friends or family, we blame the other
person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will
grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive
effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason
and argument. That is my experience. No blame, no
reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you
understand, and you show that you understand, you can
love, and the situation will change"
4 orders:
I can guess I have to try harder at home.
I am so sick of trying sometimes, haha easier to blame others..
oh..that reminds me.. it's a good time for me to plant my lettuces. Actually hor..lettuce very easy to take care... if die, die lor.. :) go out and buy.
Agree with your 'opinion'. we should try think of the 'problem' behind the 'failure' instead of 'blaming' others.
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